People sometimes offer compliments even when they don't really believe what th
ey are saying. They may tell a friend they like their new dress, even though t
hey actually find it too extravagant or outright hideous. Most of us are compa
ssionate, and we don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so we may fudge the tru
th just a bit to avoid being hurtful. You are someone who tends to be especial
ly empathic, dear Pisces, and you have a powerful aversion to making someone f
eel bad. But sometimes, as the song says, you have to be cruel to be kind. You
can soften up a message that you need to deliver, but not so much that you om
it the whole truth.
人常常称赞恭维别人但却不是真心的。例如跟朋友说很喜欢他的新洋装，事实上觉得很奢
侈浪费或极为难看。大部分的人是很有同情心的，我们不想伤害别人的感受，所以会含糊
其辞试着不要讲出伤人的真相。双鱼，你是能感同身受的人，可是同时也能引起他人的反
感。有时候，要想善良，必先残忍。你可以用委婉的方式阐述你的想法并点出事实。