[情报] 11/20 The Daily Horoscope

楼主: sujaya (云 悦)   2014-11-20 07:17:05
Thursday Nov 20
It is one thing to be someone's shoulder to cry on, or their source of
support. It is another thing entirely to offer unwanted and/or unasked-for
advice when you think you know better than the other person. You may have
strong opinions about what someone you care about is doing with their life.
That's your right.
However, Pisces, you don't have a right to impose those beliefs on someone
else. You can make it clear that you are available for feedback if it's wanted,
but don't be overly aggressive about it. If you're subtle, you stand a better
chance of being asked.
作者: kawsxkaws (景美奶茶哥)   2014-11-20 12:03:00
推!!
作者: TCFmars (卧狼)   2014-11-20 12:38:00
嗯嗯...没错...说的好
作者: papasu (闪云蜗)   2014-11-20 16:24:00
其实看不太懂
作者: lightpisces (赖打‧鱼)   2014-11-20 17:08:00
意思就是符合他人所需要的帮助才是真体贴即便你的看法真的比较好 但如果要人家接受你或寻求你的协助时 要先试着倾听、用点技巧性或温柔的方式让人觉得不那么强硬与压迫

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