Someone you know very well may have made a choice that you do not understand.
Because their choice does not seem to align with who this person is, Leo, you
may assume it was the wrong way to go. But you need to consider another possib
ility. It is possible that you don't know everything about this individual, an
d maybe they made the right choice for their situation. Now turn that situatio
n around. If there is someone who does not understand a choice you made recent
ly, they may not know what made this choice work for you. Help them understand
, and you will feel freer to express yourself.
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一个你非常了解的人可能做出了一个你无法理解的选择，因为他们的选择似乎不像是这个
人会做出的。
你可能会认为这是错的，但你需要考虑另一种可能性。 你可能不了解这个人的情况，也
许他们其实做出了正确的选择。
现在把情况反过来。 如果有些人不了解你最近所做出的选择，那么他们可能并不知道是
什么原因使你做出了那样的选择。
帮助他们理解，你就可以更加自由地表达自己。