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stuj9019 (MLGPRO)
2019-10-12 22:12:50Sometimes when we think about compromise, we don't see it in the correct way.
You may be on the verge of compromising on something now, and there may be som
e element of resentment on your part. That could be because you see it as givi
ng in to someone else. You may not see it as meeting someone else halfway - bu
t that's what compromise essentially is. You are each giving something up to g
et something you want. Try to see compromise as a gift you are giving each oth
er. If you can adjust your attitude towards compromise, you'd be much happier
for it.
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有时,当我们在考虑是否妥协时,我们会以错误的方式看待它。
你现在可能就处在妥协的边缘,而这件事可能会引起你的不满。 那可能是因为你认为妥
协是屈服于他人,而不是将其视为与其他人合作的方式。
事实上,妥协是每个人都放弃一些东西以获得想要的东西。 尝试将妥协视为彼此赠送的
礼物。
如果你可以调整对妥协的态度,那么你会为此感到高兴。