You have been kind, compassionate, understanding, and encouraging to someone
in your world who seems to be in need. But when you look back, Leo, you can
see that this individual always seems to be in need. Because you have a sense
of obligation toward this person, and because you care, you keep catering to
the neediness. But the best, most helpful thing you can do now is to offer
tough love instead. Be more demanding. This person has greater capabilities
than you are allowing for. Give them the gift of standing on their own two
feet.