You can make a change in a situation that you have been wanting to make withou
t starting a confrontation. You may think that someone who is central to the s
ituation will put up a fight or will become volatile if you raise the issue of
making a change. If you approach this person in an aggressive or overly asser
tive way, you will put them on the defense. But if you address this with a mor
e business-like approach - conveying your ideas and why you think they are bet
ter than the status quo - you will get this person thinking. That's the start
of change, Leo.
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你能够为了一个你想要的局势而做出改变。你也许认为有个关键人物会引起一场纷争或者
是当你想做出改变时他会站在你的对立面上。如果你用过度激进的态度去和这人接触，他
当然会对你有着防备心。但如果你能够就事论事，像是说出你的想法并说明为何它会让事
情变得更好，你将会让这个人改变心意。那就是改变的开始，狮子们
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懒人包：就事论事