对方喜欢自己 才是最重要的事情?
这让我一直想到黑镜
第四季 第四集"Hang the DJ"的一段话
Each time you get a bit more pliable,
a bit more broken.
Until it eventually caughs up with
a final offering and says that is the one.
By that point you are so exhausted and
so defeated that you just accept it.
You settle.
Then you have to spend the rest of your
life convicing yourself you didn't.
大概就是每次追寻真爱的过程
都让自己更加的受伤与脆弱
最后终于遇到一个人(剧中是交友软件配对的人)
(交友软件告诉你说这个人是匹配率很高的)
到那时候你已经筋疲力尽了
所以就接受这个结果 妥协了
接着你就要花你余下的人生骗自己说自己没有妥协
人生好难