楼主:
zhxl (武装肥宅)
2018-03-19 22:59:37探讨“亚洲女性仇视亚洲男性”的议题
此文出于专门关注亚洲女生权利的杂志 april magazine 上
原文网址:https://goo.gl/9HHf73
原文
I was in the eighth grade when I first encountered a self-hating Asian. The
person in question was a 1.5th generation Korean girl and one of the few
other Asian students in my nearly all-white Canadian high school. Being
(heterosexual) teenaged girls, we naturally spent a lot of our time together
discussing cute boys. I can still remember her reaction when I mentioned that
my long-time crush was the boy who sat in front of me during my after-school
Chinese classes.
“Oh, so he’s an Asian guy,” she said dismissively. Seeing the confused
look on my face, she quickly added, “It’s just that they’re always so
nerdy, you know? And most of them are kind of ugly, too.”
My friend wasn’t alone in holding these views. Since then, I’ve listened to
countless Asian women sing their excuses for why they refused to date within
their own race. Between the never-ending chorus of “It’d be like dating my
own brother” or “I just happen to have more in common with white guys,” I
began to understand that these excuses were simply an expression of their
internalized racism. Rather than confront these feelings, they chose to craft
a narrative where Asian men were too [fill in the blank with an undesirable
characteristic of your choice], thus absolving them of personal
responsibility for their dating decisions.
Of course, on closer inspection, it was clear that their rationalizations
were riddled with inconsistencies. For one thing, in order for their
collective testimonies to be true, Asian men would have to occupy a very
paradoxical position on the spectrum of male undesirability—vilified as
patriarchal overlords by one woman and then mocked for being geeky losers by
the next.
Moreover, while these women vehemently resisted being labeled themselves,
they couldn’t recognize their own hypocrisy in stereotyping other groups.
Take, for example, this article written by an international student from Hong
Kong attending university in the UK. She discusses the ethnic stereotypes she
has encountered and ultimately reaffirms that people are just “individuals
with variety after all.” She then ends her piece by remarking that Chinese
men are, in fact, “smaller” than white men.
This article ties into a larger trend of Asian women publicly vocalizing
disdain for their Asian male counterparts. Gina Choe and Jenny An both felt
compelled to broadcast their Asian-exclusionary dating preferences on public
platforms. Comedian Esther Ku routinely exploits (false) stereotypes of Asian
men during her shows. A couple months ago, she even tweeted a video thanking
United Airlines for assaulting Dr. David Dao. I want to be clear: there’s
nothing wrong with choosing to be in an interracial relationship. There’s
everything wrong with having to insult the men of your own race when you do.
Our current racial climate is inherently hostile and discourages anything
that fosters a strong sense of self-esteem among all POC living in the West.
Whiteness is often the unspoken prerequisite to success and respect, which
incentivizes minorities to seek further inclusion into white society. For
some Asian women, this involves disassociating themselves entirely from Asian
men. These women are certainly not representative of the average Asian woman
from any country. However, we also can’t deny that this vocal minority has
swallowed up a disproportionate amount of room in what little space is
granted for our voices. And there’s been minimal effort on our part to
censure them.
Taken in the collective, the actions of these individuals illustrate the
broader failure of our community to facilitate open discussion on issues like
internalized racism. As a diverse and immigrant-heavy population, the
development of our racial consciousness remains in its fledgling state. The
foundation of our activism, therefore, depends on our ability to solidify a
positive Asian identity—and we can start by calling out the self-haters
among us.
(Written by Yuenting J. Yuenting is a third generation Chinese-Canadian
currently attending university.)
粗略的意思是部分亚洲女性找了许多借口来污蔑贬低亚洲男性
将沙文主义、鲁蛇、甚至是种族歧视的字眼都莫须有的套在亚洲男人身上
将亚洲男性贬低的一无是处好让她们喜欢白人的行为合理化
喔喔喔喔喔喔喔喔 终于有人说实话了 还不推爆!!!
作者: eko112 (飘阿飘) 2018-03-19 23:00:00
好中肯
作者:
OAO5566 (OAO)
2018-03-19 23:00:00这篇会有几推? XDDDD
作者:
qhapaq (hyperbolicsine)
2018-03-19 23:01:00抓到了 仇男
作者: zzzz8931 (肥宅) 2018-03-19 23:01:00
滥用爆卦 88
作者:
cul287 (希悠)
2018-03-19 23:01:00事实
作者:
popgsct (超级喜欢捡石头)
2018-03-19 23:01:00惨惹 这篇政治不正确 帮补血
作者: harimo (哈里欧) 2018-03-19 23:01:00
好文,推
作者:
FA88124 (吃我的Put啦)
2018-03-19 23:02:00国际认证
作者: yeap193 (阿叶) 2018-03-19 23:02:00
爸爸也是亚洲男 间接贬低自己一半的血统?XD
作者:
yesgogo (潮州渔民)
2018-03-19 23:03:00楼下帮转女版
作者:
lzhhilly (人海中遇见你)
2018-03-19 23:03:00国际认证
作者:
melic ( )
2018-03-19 23:04:00可悲台男还要买媒体仇女
作者: tonytl6962 (小张张) 2018-03-19 23:04:00
抓到 仇女杂志
作者: scu96 (未来救赎) 2018-03-19 23:04:00
总算有人发现我们的好了 这本可以买
作者:
pillliq (o皿o)
2018-03-19 23:05:00把到别人男朋友 内战了
作者:
Tenging (菜鸟)
2018-03-19 23:05:00HEHEHEHE
作者:
N40805 (无糖少冰珍奶)
2018-03-19 23:05:00男生真的要保护自己
作者:
jezz9740 (IMMVP)
2018-03-19 23:05:00这本杂志要被女权停刊囉
这是真的女权杂志吗=_= 怎么跟我们台湾的女权不一样
作者:
LT26i (图书馆)
2018-03-19 23:06:00他访问的都是有CCR倾向的女生 会有这结果不EY
作者:
d880126d (DrEamChasEr)
2018-03-19 23:06:00推
作者:
laba5566 (最爱56家族 啾咪)
2018-03-19 23:06:00白女: 干你娘 跟亚洲鲁蛇再一起就好 不要来抢白男
作者:
Rsreturn (relly)
2018-03-19 23:06:00靠,阿小屌矮子亚洲男是不能歧视腻
作者:
MEVIUS (七星)
2018-03-19 23:06:00歧视亚洲男性(X) 喜欢吸白懒觉(O)
作者:
Aggro (阿果)
2018-03-19 23:06:00会不会被隔空水桶阿
作者:
saint01 (圣灵衣)
2018-03-19 23:08:00......
作者:
mjonask (不是啦)
2018-03-19 23:09:00WOW
作者:
STi2011 (鸟王达)
2018-03-19 23:09:00XDDDDDD
作者: silentence (小飞号:号:) 2018-03-19 23:10:00
地图炮好像有点大....XDDDDDDDDDD
作者:
suhaw (阿邪)
2018-03-19 23:10:00隔空水桶!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者:
watashiD (watashiD)
2018-03-19 23:10:00终于有人帮忙平反了QQ 感动
这一定是野鸡杂志啦啦啦 我们台湾女权怎么可能有问题
作者: ilpqvm (君を爱してる) 2018-03-19 23:11:00
这是白人女权在歧视黄人女权吗? 黄人女权这么有威胁性?
作者: PttXiangMing (批踢踢乡民) 2018-03-19 23:11:00
QQ
就周芷若那类型的啊 我反而才比较惊讶这么久才有人说
作者: tksq (3ya) 2018-03-19 23:12:00
转母猪版啊
作者:
tnnua (我思)
2018-03-19 23:12:00本日最中肯
作者:
CvyGG (sendai)
2018-03-19 23:12:00隔壁又要开吃自助宵夜了
作者:
Dooo (腊肠狗切半去尾)
2018-03-19 23:13:00女权终于对自家猪队友开炮了
作者:
kevinlike (kevinlike)
2018-03-19 23:13:00推
作者:
zy116pj (åç‘œå¥½å¯æ„›)
2018-03-19 23:14:00先补血
作者:
cosmite (K)
2018-03-19 23:14:00事实给推
作者: ARTORIA 2018-03-19 23:14:00
国际认证的母猪
作者: HowieH (好) 2018-03-19 23:15:00
XD
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:15:00台女
作者: moeliliacg (moeliliacg) 2018-03-19 23:15:00
女权杂志认证的(ry)
作者:
sazdj (大安金城武)
2018-03-19 23:15:00看着看着 我不知不觉流下眼泪
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:16:00哇靠好犀利的用词 比八卦用词还犀利
作者:
liehen (Alexaki)
2018-03-19 23:16:00帮补血XD
作者: jojoberry (jojoyarou) 2018-03-19 23:16:00
亚男又再假女人之名行仇女之实囉!!几千年来骗不腻耶~~
第二段还砲nerdy书呆kinds of ugly,也不看看自己
作者: wate5566 (_(:3”∠)_) 2018-03-19 23:17:00
抓到了 女拳杂志是台南外围组织
作者: jojoberry (jojoyarou) 2018-03-19 23:17:00
台男真的被台男害死耶~嘻嘻
作者: markie1234 (安安你好) 2018-03-19 23:18:00
原来是台女R
作者:
muzik (fin)
2018-03-19 23:18:00以上是求偶焦虑名单
作者:
djyunjie (奉公守法好国民)
2018-03-19 23:18:00国际认证
作者:
s81048112 (**********已加密)
2018-03-19 23:18:00XDDDDDDDDDDDD
作者:
MADAOTW (MADAO)
2018-03-19 23:18:00推
作者:
alog (A肉哥)
2018-03-19 23:19:00女权认证 可是我也很爱洋妞啊
作者: kmshy (shy) 2018-03-19 23:19:00
周掌门又要发废文了
作者: s86141123 (小其哥) 2018-03-19 23:20:00
国际认证,帮补血
第三段超精彩,这根本是内化的歧视,只会用自己的观点强加在亚洲男性身上,还认为自己跟白人有共同优势
作者:
Rsreturn (relly)
2018-03-19 23:21:00这篇真正猛,连亚洲男性比较"小"都有提到,亚女到欧美
作者: zxc99327 2018-03-19 23:21:00
QQ
作者:
xdctjh (冻顶)
2018-03-19 23:21:00给翻译翻译
作者: lslayer 2018-03-19 23:22:00
讲这么明白CCR会不会暴怒崩溃阿?
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD有勇者要转去洒花版吗
作者: sunyapess (SYP) 2018-03-19 23:24:00
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
作者:
icou (已哭)
2018-03-19 23:24:00干这什么杂志我要订阅
作者:
k44754 (9527)
2018-03-19 23:24:00专业杂志
第四段就反正行为不符台女期待就被扣父权帽子,至少p
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:25:00April Magazine 仇女还被看破手脚 抵制不再看
作者:
andy10222 (Lightknight)
2018-03-19 23:25:00补血
作者:
KSHLO (Wunderbar)
2018-03-19 23:25:00是真的阿 洋妞都比亚洲女生好相处 不会有莫名优越感
作者: jieen0604 (habit) 2018-03-19 23:25:00
笑死
作者:
losel 2018-03-19 23:25:00又是恶心台男仇 ...... 咦 ...... ?
作者:
paxiex32 (阿力力很大)
2018-03-19 23:26:00??????
作者:
xdctjh (冻顶)
2018-03-19 23:26:00喜欢白懒叫啦
作者:
anonym48 (Inmyname)
2018-03-19 23:26:00亚洲人自己就爱歧视自己,男女都一样只是表现在不同地方
作者:
Lavaro (null)
2018-03-19 23:27:00这篇精准点出台湾女权自助餐的样态!!! 叙述之精准令人赞叹
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:27:00假女权杂志 真父权文宣
作者:
vespar (布蓝宝125)
2018-03-19 23:27:00这众所皆知八
作者: MotleyCrue (克鲁小丑) 2018-03-19 23:27:00
太专业了 国际认证台女 = 母猪
作者:
ben840619 (小小书僮 可笑可笑)
2018-03-19 23:28:00爆吧
第五段反正亚女半斤八两自己不爱被贴标签还贴别人,港女到国外唸书都懂得什么是个体多样,抛弃成见,反观
作者:
WWIII (东邪西毒)
2018-03-19 23:30:00哈哈 真女权来打脸ccr了
作者: finalsin 2018-03-19 23:30:00
翻译一下啦!会有人说:人家女生看不懂啦。。。
作者: nowitzki0207 2018-03-19 23:30:00
莫须有这可不一定吧
作者:
huabandd (我是阿肥巴你头)
2018-03-19 23:31:00女权要出来了 先补血先补血
作者: Icanmakeit (台大法男) 2018-03-19 23:32:00
这里都多益1000的 还有看不懂的人喔= =
作者:
lyt5566 (无糖奶茶很难喝)
2018-03-19 23:32:00抓到了,女权歧视女权
作者:
acpbl (星夜)
2018-03-19 23:32:00台女
作者: sunyapess (SYP) 2018-03-19 23:33:00
看完了 写得好生动XDDD
作者:
Forthelife (我èªç‚ºæš±ç¨±ä¸€å®šè¦å…¨å¡«æ»¿)
2018-03-19 23:33:00呵呵呵呵呃呃呃呃呃诶
作者: HNO3 (硝酸) 2018-03-19 23:33:00
QAQ 难怪我单身这么久
作者:
Forthelife (我èªç‚ºæš±ç¨±ä¸€å®šè¦å…¨å¡«æ»¿)
2018-03-19 23:34:00妈的快笑死,真的假的啊?不是来钓的吧?
作者:
love0504 (中坜方文山)
2018-03-19 23:34:00嗯
作者:
gh26300 (尼安德塔人)
2018-03-19 23:34:00那韩女真逗
作者:
ptt888 (op)
2018-03-19 23:34:00中肯
作者: wds824 (wds824) 2018-03-19 23:34:00
只能推了
作者:
arod40 (无心之人)
2018-03-19 23:34:00推推推
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:35:00又没提到台女 亚洲女性不代表台女 台男少高潮了
作者:
dannpptt (87小帅弟)
2018-03-19 23:36:00假女权杂志
作者:
IHD (终于要等到时空变异了吗?)
2018-03-19 23:36:00台湾的自助餐 要怎么自圆其说了啊???
作者: moeliliacg (moeliliacg) 2018-03-19 23:36:00
帮补血
作者:
t81511270 (justlikeING)
2018-03-19 23:37:00国际认证 帮推
作者:
IHD (终于要等到时空变异了吗?)
2018-03-19 23:37:00早就说 人家真正的女权 肯定不是台湾自助餐教授带领的这种啦
作者:
holydc (のヮの)
2018-03-19 23:37:00一定是求偶焦虑亚男编的仇女杂志
作者:
Pixma258 (乡民们!别争了!!)
2018-03-19 23:38:00写的人名字和种族明明就是在美华人,不是白人女在攻击亚洲女性,笑死人
作者:
Joey452 (Joey)
2018-03-19 23:38:00一定是吃不到洋肠、或吃到毒洋肠,所以赌烂写了这篇
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:38:00不过就是亚洲男性订阅者少 促销一下 台男就兴奋了 真好操弄
作者:
djyunjie (奉公守法好国民)
2018-03-19 23:39:00亚洲女性不代表台女 ok 这个逻辑很ok
作者:
pytzog (放弃治疗)
2018-03-19 23:40:00希望下辈子能投胎当金发洋人
作者:
u35k6 (漫画)
2018-03-19 23:40:00没听过的杂志 转洒花板了吗XD
作者:
apple7685 (applelion)
2018-03-19 23:40:007777777777
作者:
kobe9527 (狗鼻9527)
2018-03-19 23:41:00女权认证
作者: rumirumi 2018-03-19 23:42:00
不就是ㄈㄈ尺的台女吗
作者:
LikeaG6 (东方联盟)
2018-03-19 23:42:00我要写个惨字
作者:
m3633998 (designyui806)
2018-03-19 23:44:00XD
作者:
QVQ9487 (就是霸气QVQ)
2018-03-19 23:44:00垃圾亚女
作者:
p72910 (总是有刁民想害朕)
2018-03-19 23:44:00不是只有台女而已,是全亚洲都哈白屌,台男有没有很安慰
作者:
WWIII (东邪西毒)
2018-03-19 23:44:00真假女权 高下立判阿
作者:
INTJ (Hello~)
2018-03-19 23:45:00干!
作者:
heybro (魔法肥宅见习生)
2018-03-19 23:46:00稍微去看了一下某些人的嘴脸 呕呕呕呕呕呕
作者: AAA891216 (123456) 2018-03-19 23:46:00
台男歧视台女 台女歧视台男 不就是亚洲人歧视亚洲人
作者:
color3258 (极至透明边缘魔法师ANN☑)
2018-03-19 23:46:00赞!!推!!!
作者:
IHD (终于要等到时空变异了吗?)
2018-03-19 23:48:00鲁蛇扛轿 才能继续上嫁下娶啊 没嫁出去是人中之龙供应不足啊
作者: lunawolke (火树银花) 2018-03-19 23:48:00
国际认证
作者:
jetzake (加菲猫)
2018-03-19 23:49:00看戏看戏
作者:
ErROrGG (饵箱)
2018-03-19 23:50:00小心 是隔空水桶!!!
作者:
hihi29 (无)
2018-03-19 23:50:00根本就是在讲台女
作者: JayceYen (Jayce) 2018-03-19 23:51:00
台母猪 世界公认
作者: t1329kimo (Que Sera Sera) 2018-03-19 23:52:00
肥芷又要7pupu了
作者:
Atwo (A兔)
2018-03-19 23:52:00QQ 我为什么生下来是世界最下贱的血统和性别 我要当高加索人
作者: tyifgee (pttnoob) 2018-03-19 23:53:00
哇靠...这不是自助餐啊
作者: p907018 (pipi12172) 2018-03-19 23:53:00
国际认证
作者:
IHD (终于要等到时空变异了吗?)
2018-03-19 23:53:00别急 还没到底 支持母语大对决齁 那母语非英语的 会更低喔
作者:
ZUBIN (鬼岛太郎)
2018-03-19 23:53:00推 这本可以买!!
作者:
spec55959 (å…«å¦å±±ä¸‹æ™ºæ‘å¥)
2018-03-19 23:54:00笑了
作者: Allenlin0720 2018-03-19 23:54:00
诚实
作者:
PB5566 (^・ω・^ )
2018-03-19 23:55:00国际认证ccr
作者:
cary3410 (CarRyYoUAlL)
2018-03-19 23:55:00干真话推爆妳
这是好事吧!正视弊端或猪队友的存在,让真正该推行的权利推行,而不是让人滥用
作者: WangDanny (丹尼) 2018-03-19 23:56:00
诚实给推
作者:
INTJ (Hello~)
2018-03-19 23:56:00我看不懂, 有没有大大能帮忙翻译全文? 谢谢
作者: scottham (蓝天阿哈) 2018-03-19 23:56:00
不要这么中肯
作者: minicoke (GGcola) 2018-03-19 23:56:00
这白女喜欢亚洲男?
作者:
SupCat (空空)
2018-03-19 23:57:00喔喔喔喔 掌门快出来洗地阿
作者: wsx26997785 2018-03-19 23:57:00
反正白人也只是玩玩而已
作者:
ewjfd (无经验可)
2018-03-19 23:57:00这是杂志拓展订阅族群常见手法 台男单身狗自慰取暖 可怜
作者:
linceass (ギリギリ爱 ~キリキリ舞~)
2018-03-19 23:57:00国际认证ㄈㄈ尺
作者:
sourbait (sourbait)
2018-03-19 23:58:00QQ
作者:
CHANYII (圈一)
2018-03-19 23:58:00有些人真的在扯后腿 女权薄弱是事实 但是也不能无限上纲加自助餐 很可拨
作者: minicoke (GGcola) 2018-03-19 23:58:00
我觉得亚洲哪国还是有差吧 但白人就只归类为亚洲
作者: minicoke (GGcola) 2018-03-19 23:59:00
(对亚洲女来说
作者: wsx26997785 2018-03-19 23:59:00
我英文文盲 求翻译