Have you ever sat through a movie with someone who talks incessantly? If so, y
ou know how difficult it can be to follow the story, let alone enjoy it. That
person will ask questions, express emotions, and generally make comments about
what is going on throughout the film. It damages the experience for others. S
omeone you have called on for help may be doing that now. The very thing you n
eed help with is being damaged by that person's involvement. This is unintenti
onal, but it's difficult just the same. Try going it alone for a while. You'll
probably figure it out by yourself.
你是否曾经和一个一直不停在讲话的人看过电影？
如果真的有过，那么你知道你有多困难跟上剧情，独自享受电影。
那个人会问问题，表达情绪，并且对电影情节中发生的事情表达意见。
他危害到其他人观赏电影的经验。
某个你曾经寻求帮助的人正在那样做。
你最需要帮助的事情因那个人的干预而受损害。
这个人也许是无心之过，但是同样困难。
试着单独行动一会儿，你自己就会理解出来。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。