You may be tempted to be more assertive with someone who is refusing to give y
ou the answer you need or to join you in a mission they promised they would he
lp out with. That might not be the best way to approach this, though, dear Gem
ini. If you get too pushy - even if you feel justified in doing so - you might
cause that person to retreat into their shell and move even further away. The
re may be a concern they have that they have not yet raised, so a gentle appro
ach can help them to talk about it. And then you will have the chance to overc
ome any issues and move forward.
当某个人拒绝给你你需要的答案，或者是拒绝加入他们之前答应你要帮忙的任务时，
你就可能变得更加武断。
这个不是这个问题最好的解决方法，亲爱的双子们。
如果你太咄咄逼人 — 即使你觉得这样做是合理的 —
那样也许造成那个人退到自己的壳里，甚至离你更远。
他们可能有一些担忧尚未提出，因此温和的方法可以帮助他们谈论这个问题。
那么你将会有机会去克服任何问题，并且继续前进。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。