A psychologist might tell you that if you hate someone, it means you actually
care for them on some level. To feel that amount of passion for a person, they
might tell you that there is a lot of deep and hidden emotion there. You may
disagree, dear Gemini. There may be someone in your life now who has wronged y
ou in such a harmful, hurtful way that you can't imagine caring for that perso
n, even if you once did. It is okay to feel the way you do, and it is understa
ndable too. Even so, hate is poison to you, even if it never effects the objec
t of that feeling. Try to set yourself free.
如果你恨某个人,心理学家也许会告诉你,
它意味着某种程度上你实际上是关心他们的。
要感受到对某个人的热情,他们可能会告诉你那里隐藏了许多深层的情绪。
你也许不同意,亲爱的双子们。
在你的生活中,那里也许有某个人可能以如此有害的、伤害性的方式冤枉了你,
以致于你无法想像关心那个人,即使你过去曾经关心过他。
有这样的感觉是可以的,这是可以理解的。
即使如此,仇恨对你来说是毒药,即使它从未影响你对那个对象的感觉。
试着让自己自由。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教,谢谢。