Try to be flexible today about a matter that someone wants to argue about. You
may have specific things in mind that you want or need, dear Gemini, and you
are not open to negotiation. However, if you approach this in a concerned mann
er, showing that you do care about what the other person wants as well, then t
hey will be more open to talking it over with you. Sometimes just showing that
you actually hear someone is enough to make them flexible too.
今天试着对某个人想办法争论某件事情保持弹性。
您也许在心里面有特定想要或者是需要的东西,亲爱的双子们,而您不愿意谈判。
然而,如果你以关心的方式处理这件事,展现你的确也关心对方的需求,
那么他们就会用更开放的心胸与你谈论此事。
有时候,只要显示你确实听到某个人的声音,就足以让他们也变得灵活。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教,谢谢。