Just because someone asks for your opinion on a choice they are making does no
t mean they are ready to hear the truth about what you think. Before you choos
e to answer someone today, dear Gemini, try to feel the situation out first. A
re they truly looking for your insight and your advice, or could they be looki
ng just for validation instead? If you think they just want your endorsement o
f their choice and you don't feel that you can provide it, you may want to bac
k off and remain neutral for your own peace of mind. Give them a chance to be
open to constructive criticism.
仅只因为某个人就他们所做的选择向你寻求意见，
并不代表他们准备好要听取你所想表达的真相。
今天，在你选择回答某个人之前，亲爱的双子们，
试着先感受情境。
他们是真的寻求你的见解和建议，或者是他们只是寻求验证而已？
如果你认为他们只是想要你认可他们的选择 ，而你不想提供给他们，
你可能想要退后一步，为了维持你内心的平静而保持中立。
让他们有机会接受建设性的批评。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。