In your efforts to be kind and understanding of someone in your social or fami
ly circle, you have put up with quite a lot of bad behavior and unfortunate ch
oices. You have been tolerant and compassionate because you are an empathic an
d caring person. But there comes a point where you need to be tougher. If some
one has repeatedly made the same mistakes or bad choices, it's a good thing to
let them know you won't tolerate it any longer. You can inspire positive chan
ge by demanding and insisting on getting only the best.
你努力仁慈且善解人意的对待你社交圈里或者是你家庭圈里的某个人，
你曾经容忍了许多不良的行为和不幸的选择。
你一直宽容且具有同情心，因为你是一个富有同情心且关怀别人的人。
但是，有一点你必须更加强硬一点。
如果某个人一直重复犯同样的错误或糟糕的选择，
让他们知道你不会再容忍他们是一件好事。
你可以借由要求和坚持只得到最好的，
来激发他们正向的改变。
Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。