A common punishment today for when a child is not behaving would be to give th
em a "time out," or perhaps take away their electronic devices for a certain p
eriod of time. Going without often teaches a lesson that is better than becomi
ng angry or yelling. Someone may not be treating you as you desire to be treat
ed, Gemini. Getting angry and lashing out might temporarily allow you to vent,
but taking your attention away from this individual and ignoring the situatio
n is more likely to have a longer-lasting, and more impactful effect.
今天，一种常见的处罚，当孩子不乖会给他们一个“暂停”，
或者是拿走他们的电子用品一段时间。
走开通常带来的教训比生气或者是吼叫好。
某个人也许没有照您期待的方式对待你，双子们。
生气并且猛烈抨击只是暂时让你发泄，
但是将你的注意力从这个人身上移走，
并且忽略这种情况可能影响更持久、更有冲击力。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。