You may be avoiding a conversation with someone in your personal life because
you fear it will easily devolve into an argument. You may be right, Gemini. Th
ere is potential here for inflamed emotions and angry comments. But an argumen
t is not the worst thing that could happen. In fact, this kind of conflict, if
handled properly and with respect, can lead you to an important insight. Be t
houghtful in what you say and be clear in how you express yourself and encoura
ge the other party to do the same. Try to make the best of the situation.
你避免跟某个人谈论到你个人的生活，因为你害怕会很容易引起争论。
你也许是对的，双子们。
那里有潜在激怒情绪和生气的因素。
但是，争论不是可能会发生最糟的事情。
实际上，这种冲突，如果带着尊敬处理得恰当，
可能会带领你到重要的洞见。
请注意你要说的话，并且清楚知道如何表达你自己，并且鼓励另外一方做同样的事情。
试着让情况变得最好。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。