If you dedicate some time to work on a regret or a disappointment that has bee
n weighing you down, you can get through it and move on to better things. Main
tain a mindset of rising above what is bothering you, and find ways to inspire
yourself and learn from your experience. It might take you all day to put thi
ngs in perspective and to be more objective about what you have been through,
Gemini, but you can do it. When you question what if over and over, it begins
to feel like a failure, even though you most likely did the very best you coul
d. Start praising yourself instead for being strong enough to improve yourself
.
如果你曾致力于让你后悔或者是让你失望的事情，
你可以跨越过它，并且朝更好的目标迈进。
保持超越困扰你的心态，找出鼓励你自己的方法，
并且从中学习你的经验。
它可能需要花费你一整天的时间去把你曾经经历过的事情看得更透澈、更客观，
双双们，你可以做到的。
当你一遍又一遍的询问自己，它开始感觉像个失败，
即使你极有可能已经尽了自己的最好。
开始称赞自己，而不是强烈的要求自己改进。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。