You have done so much and given so much to a certain person that you may have
come to believe that they can't function without your help. But even if that w
ere true, it would not be an obligation for you to be there and provide whatev
er that person asks for or needs. In fact, the only obligation you might have
in such a situation is to turn down requests so that this individual might beg
in to stand on their own two feet. If that's your predicament now, consider se
tting things straight, dear Gemini.
你已经为某个人做了许多事并且贡献许多给他，
以致于你相信他们没有你就无法运作。
但是，即使那是真的，你没有义务去提供那个人的要求和需求。
实际上，你唯一的义务是拒绝那些要求以便那个人独立。
如果这个就是你的困境，亲爱的双子们，请考虑将事情摆平。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。