The "I told you so" can be very tempting words to say when you have repeatedly
advised someone on something, only to be spurned or ignored. Then when things
turn out as you said they would, it becomes abundantly clear that you were ri
ght all along. That may be a satisfying feeling, but it's a smug response. If
you are tempted to go there with something you predicted but it was not taken
seriously, try to resist the urge to gloat. Even though you may deserve it sin
ce you had the best of intentions, it will make it less likely that you will b
e heard the next time something similar happens, Gemini.
“我早就告诉过你”可以是非常诱人的句子,当你重复地建议某个人关于某件事情,
只是你会被唾弃或者是被忽略。
然后当事情就转变成你对他们所说的那样,那么它就很清楚地证明你是对的。
那也许是满意的感觉,但是那是沾沾自喜的回应。
当你试图提出你那并未受到重视的预估,
请尽量避免冷眼旁观的冲动。
就算你也许该冷眼旁观,毕竟你已做了善意提醒,
你仍可以降低下次再听到类似事情发生的可能性,双子们。
Ps.如果有误译请指教,谢谢。