There is no one single way to deal with a problem, Gemini. There are, however,
plenty of people who will tell you that there is. Usually, they have their ow
n way of doing things, and they may expect that what works for them will work
for you too. They may have good intentions, but it does not always work that w
ay. So, ignore someone else's tried-and-true solution to your problem, and com
e up with a solution of your own. This is a very solvable matter, and you need
to follow what feels right to you personally.
那里不会只有一种解决方案，双子们。
然而，那里有许多的人会告诉你只有一种解决方案。
通常，他们有他们的做事方法，他们期待那样对你也行得通。
他们也许有好的意图，但是它不是都会管用。
所以，忽略他们久经考验的解决方案，你自己想出你自己一套的解决方案。
这是可以解决的问题，你需要跟着你个人对的感觉走。
Ps．如果有误译请指教，谢谢。