There is a lot of wisdom in the saying "do unto others as you would have them
do unto you." The logical conclusion is that if you treat others kindly and wi
th respect, they will treat you with kindness and respect. But as you know, Ge
mini, that doesn't always happen. You may be experiencing meanness, rudeness,
or unfairness from someone. Your natural reaction may be to lash out and give
back what you are getting. But if you treat that person in the way you wish th
ey would treat you, and you are persistent in that, you may see a huge turnaro
und.
有一句谚语“己所不欲，勿施于人”。
这逻辑的结论是如果你对别人好与尊敬他人，他们也会对你好与尊敬你。
但是你知道的，双子们，那种情形不是总是会发生的。
你也许经历过某个人刻薄、无礼、或是不公平的对待。
你的自然反应也许是严厉斥责回去，并且以牙还牙 以眼还眼。
但是如果以你希望他对待你的方式去对待他们，而且你坚持那样做，
你将会看见巨大的转变。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。