You may feel that a recent problem or delay was someone else's fault, Gemini.
Maybe it was, but maybe you unknowingly contributed to it. It doesn't matter e
ither way. If you approach it with a tone of blame, you may only create hostil
ity in a situation that would be much better without it, as most situations ar
e. Rather than pointing at someone's flaw or mishap, try to deal with this in
a constructive, solution-oriented way. That's a positive approach that can onl
y improve things.
也许它是（别人的错），但也可能是你不经意的推波助澜。这其实都不重要。
如果你带着指责去面对它，或许只会生出敌意，而在这种情况下，
或者大多数的情况下，敌意都是不被乐见。
与其指责别人的缺点或者是灾难，试着用有建设性的、解决方案的方向去处理它。
正向的方法才是唯一可以改善事情。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。