A friendly approach to a problem or conflict you have with someone else will c
reate a tone that is conducive to reconciliation and agreement. You may want t
o deal with this person in a harsher manner because you may not see them as be
ing agreeable in any way. But you really do have the power to shift the focus
to problem-solving just by the way you deal with this individual. It certainly
can't hurt to try it out that way, Gemini. Concentrate on the positive.
用友善的方法去解决你和某个人的一个问题或者是冲突，
将会创造一个有传达力的调停和协议。
你想用尖锐的方式去处理与这个人之间的问题，
因为你也许没有用讨人喜欢的方式去看他们。
但是，你真的有权力去转换对解决问题的焦点只要借由你跟这个人处理的方式。
它当然不会造成伤害，如果你去尝试用那（友善的）方式，双子们。
专注在正面的方面。
Ps.如果有误译请指教，谢谢。