When you tell someone you don't agree with or approve of something for
which they have sought your opinion, you don't have to express your
reaction in a scathing way. You don't have to be discouraging or
harsh either, Gemini. You can actually provide a negative evaluation
in a positive, inspiring, encouraging way. You may be faced with such
a task today or very soon. Although you may have strong feelings,
you should temper them with kindness and empathy, so that you can
motivate this person on to better things.
当你告诉某人你不同意或赞同他们所寻求的意见时，你不必以苛刻的方式回应。
你也不必以泄气或严厉的方式，双双。
事实上，你可以用积极、具启发性、鼓舞的方式来提供相反意见。
你可能会在今天或很快就面临到这项任务。虽然你可能有强烈的感受，
但你应该用善意和同理心来调和它们，这样你才能激励这个人去做更好的事情。