好心还要有智慧,才能利益他人

楼主: HoEva (Unicorn)   2023-12-07 18:17:01
“起好心,做好事”,看来是理所当然的逻辑,再自然不过了。然而,我们可能经常发现
,虽然一片真心想要帮助某人,却没有得到对方正面的回应和感谢,反而抱怨连连,非常
无趣。细究之下,无非可能方法用错,时机不对,场合不对,态度不好,总有一个地方不
恰当,使得当初一番好意,却没有产生好的结果,当然落得“好心没有好报”的下场。
其实一般人没有太多心机,最初起好心做好事就是瞬间的决定,举手之劳给人方便。做的
当下并不期望得到“好报”。只有在适得其反时,才会产生“好心没好报”的感叹。可见
红尘生活中人际相处需要细腻的观察;站在对方角度了解和感受其需求,就不会一厢情愿
地在“我执”下施予对方自己的好意,反而弄巧成拙。不论我们做“阴德”或“阳善”,
能否真正发挥正向的作用而利益他人,《了凡四训》的“八善”确实可以提供细腻的辩证
,让我们得以确实掌握好心又行善的真谛。
太阳盛德导师说“身口意”三者中,以“意业”最可怕,因为它是启动一切言行的开关,
可以指使更多不好的业力产生,生生世世就在自作自受中轮回。今天参加上午Stanley学
长主持的拥抱幸福菁英会,念慈提到灵魂层潜藏的某些因子即使多年没有显现作用,在某
个因缘下可能又会触发,而对身心造成压力。如果我们知道有某些特定的负面记忆,不论
现下有无受其影响,都运用导师教导的方法,在心法中有意识地”delect消除” 并“
reset重置”,加上能量的调拨和强化,有助于免除忧虑和压力造成身心的伤害。
永不匮乏的爱
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我在人海沈浮中渴求一份爱
Life ups and downs, I am eager for love
祢在灯火阑珊处看着我来
You are waiting for me at the light
千年之约早安排 一切有了交代
This encounter was arranged thousands of years ago, and everything has been
answered
永远伫立守候永不匮乏的爱
Endless love is forever present waiting for me
春去春来花谢花开 爱蔓延开来
Spring comes and goes, flowers bloom and fall, love is spreading everywhere
幸福吉祥的道理且行且明白
The principles of happiness and abundance are practical and clear
穿梭人间皑皑的雾霾 拥爱就晶彩
Living through the delusional world, only with love, can you have an amazing
life
吉祥道路现在展开 暖暖太阳爱
The abundant path is unfolding now, with the warm and sunny love
这永不匮乏的爱 源于宇宙外
This endless love comes from the Universe
今生来到了现在 竟然可以好好被疼爱
Now that this life has come, I can be loved
曾经你我渺小如尘埃 快快把脚步迈开
You and I once were as small as dust. Let’s quickly stride forward
要怎么收获先那么栽 珍惜这份爱
How much you cultivate is how much you harvest. Let’s cherish this love
曾经人海浮沈中拼搏一份爱
Once upon a time, I was fighting for love in the ups and downs of life
祢在灯火阑珊处看着我来
You are waiting for me at the light
千年之约巧安排 终于有了交代
This encounter was arranged thousands of years ago, and everything has been
answered
永远伫立守候永不匮乏的爱
Endless love is forever present waiting for me
温暖澎湃太阳的爱 无法被取代
This warm and vigorous love from the Sun can’t be replaced by anything
从今起把握主宰手中的金牌
From now on, grasp the gold medal in your hands
感恩这永不匮乏的爱 生命好晶彩
Grateful to the endless love and your life will be amazing
源于浩瀚天地之外 暖暖太阳爱
This warm sunny love comes from the Universe
这永不匮乏的爱 祂一直都在
This endless love has always been there
今生来到了现在 从此可以好好被疼爱
Now that this life has come, from now on, I can be loved
感恩永不匮乏天地爱 快快把脚步迈开
Grateful to the endless love. Let’s quickly stride forward
要收获就得先那么栽 珍惜这份爱
How much you cultivate is how much you harvest. Let’s cherish this love
永恒天地爱 德厚畅万载
Forever Universal love, virtue is the ticket to abundance
永不匮乏的爱 温暖澎湃
Endless love, warm and vigorous
乾坤万世代
Universal and eternity
吉祥幸福人间彩 现在未来
Present and future, abundant happiness encompasses all
错过永远不再
Missing it will be no more
在爱中共振,在感恩中连结。
打造精采生命,共创美好未来。

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