When you only spent your money to pay for food or stay or anything else but not to exchange your time with people
Then you get nothing for this world
One happens from my ex friend that she say s she doesn’t like to interact with new people because it makes her feel stressful and doesn’t know what to do and say
I shared her a post from my friend which discussed introducing a German female traveler who wares no shoes for travel
Her motto is “educated by the world”
When my friend knows this shocking story, she wants to meet this girl and ask about what she learns from this world
Actually I think instead of thinking about how and what’s she has learned, why don’t you just start to know others and keep curious to others’ experience
You don’t even want to chat with people and put your mind into understanding their life
It’s so weird to hear about that
No one would really teach you if you don’t want to open your mind
Especially when you already have bias on others
But to be honest I’m also with some bias when I’m facing some other things
Just like when I meet people from north America , I can’t really take the way they sharing their life
I have to say I’m also a weird guy that feel more comfortable to be an ethnical Chinese
I can’t figure out is it because I’m an Asian or they’re American , I can’t really fit into their communication and seems they never worry about their days
But maybe I’m the only one worrying about myself all day long
What I can do is to find someone also has this feeling like me which might be very rare
See how precious we are
What I want to say is, I hope my friend throws away her stereotypes , try to pick things easier without much struggling , but maybe that’s kind of inborn personality or evolution after working for many years which transforms the cooperation mode
Anyway, good luck my friend, I wish you can find something that you didn’t earn from me from new experience
Maybe I was also meeting you with the wrong way and led to such an awkward end
Hope things go well with you