当面对一个控制狂时，最好的策略就是不要让自己也变成控制狂！
亲爱的月之子，你可能现在感到防备，因为某个个性特别强势的人正试图把他们的意愿强
加在你身上。
你或许会想要躲进自己的壳里，以避免与这个强硬且过于强势的人发生冲突，但这也不是
一个好主意。
相反地，你应该坚持你的立场，表达你的感受。
解释你的想法，举例说明为什么你想按照自己的方式行事。
不要放弃！
When dealing with a control freak, the best strategy is not to become a contro
l freak yourself! You may be feeling defensive now as someone with a particula
rly strong personality tries to impose what they want to do onto you, dear Moo
nchild. You may feel inclined to retreat to your shell to avoid the backlash o
f dealing with someone who is harsh and overly assertive, but that's not a goo
d idea either. Instead, be persistent in your resistance. Explain how you feel
. Give examples of why you want to do what you want to do. Don't give up.