Cancer horoscope for 星期一 9月 20
A helpless friend or family member may be far less helpless than you think. Of
course, they may be presenting this image to endear themselves to you, or eve
n for the pity they know you will have for them. Anyone who knows you well kno
ws what a softie you can be, and how easy it is to enlist your aid with a sob
story or a tale of heartbreak or helplessness. But if a friend or a family mem
ber has come to you one too many times with a story that is becoming less than
believable, call them on it. Making them stand on their own two feet is actua
lly a good thing you can do for them.
一个无助的朋友或家人可能远没有你想像的那么无助。当然，他们展示这个形象可能是为
了讨好你，或者甚至对他们产生同情。
任何了解你的人都知道你可以是一个多么柔软的人，以及通过一个哭泣的故事或一个心碎
或无助的故事来获得你的帮助是多么容易。
但是，如果朋友或家人带着越来越不可信的故事来找你太多次找你，请告诉给他们，让他
们‘自立’。
实际上，这是你可以为他们做的一件好事。
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