Reliving an upsetting moment in your mind can only serve one purpose - to
teach you something. If you learn your lesson well, you can improve the
next time you have the chance to do it. But if you keep going over a
failure or an awkward moment in your mind, dear Cancer, it may only
instill fear of failure and embarrassment. It is time to look forward
instead of backward. It is time to think of what can be, not what was. If
you think of it this way, you will see that anything is possible.
在心中回想某个失落的时刻只有一个目的——教会你某些东西。如果你学得好,那你
下次还有机会的话就可以改进。可是如果你在心中继续犯错或是回想难受的时刻,亲
爱的巨蟹,这也许只会逐渐灌输你害怕犯错跟尴尬的感受。现在是时候往前看了,而
不是回头望。是时候想想接下来要怎么做,而不是以前应该怎么做。如果你这样想的
话,你将会看见任何可能性。