When someone is behaving in a defensive manner, the best way to bring them
out of their shell is with kindness. As someone who spends a fair amount
of time in their shell, dear Moonchild, you can probably understand and
identify with this more than others. If you are trying to reach someone to
form a closer bond or build a foundation for better communication and you
are finding defensive behavior, you know just what to do. A little bit of
kindness and acceptance can go a long way toward building a strong
connection. Anything from a romance to a business alliance can be made
better this way.
当某个人表现出自我防卫的态度，带领他走出自己的壳的最佳方式是友善与好意。当
某个人花了很多时间躲在自己的壳里，亲爱的月之子，或许你比其他人更能理解和感
同身受这件事。如果你正试着跟某个人接触，建立更亲密的情感连结，或是为一段更
好的对话打造基础，但你却发现了自我防卫的行为举止，那么你会知道该怎么做的，
一点点的友善和接纳可以长久地打造强而有力的情感连结，从爱情到商业结盟都可以
用这种方式而有所改善。

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