We have all watched quiz shows on television, answering along with the
contestant. From the comfort and the security of our cozy seat on the
sofa, coming up with the answers can be a whole lot easier than it would
be if we were the one sitting in the hot seat under the blaze of glaring
lights. Someone in your life may have disappointed you recently by not
coming through for you on something, but keep in mind that it may be more
because of the circumstances than anything else. Give this person a chance
to redeem themselves.
我们都看过电视上的益智节目，参赛者要跟竞争者一起答题。当我们窝在舒服的沙发
上，既舒适自在又有安全感，想出答案会比在如坐针毡的节目中，坐在明亮且炽热的
镁光灯下还要简单八百万倍。你生命中的某个人最近因为没有为了你努力做某件事而
让你失望了，但是你要知道这很可能是环境使然，而不是其他因素。给这个人一个弥
补的机会吧。