When someone asks for advice, they are sometimes only seeking out
validation and/or approval for something they have already chosen to do.
Therefore, giving advice can be risky business. Someone may come to you
soon with a request for your input, insight, and wisdom. You have
something valuable to offer this person, and others as well, so don't be
afraid to speak your mind. What you have to say may not sink in right
away, but it will sink in and be quite helpful eventually.
当别人问你意见的时候，他们有时只是想要为自己的选择寻求认可和／或赞同，因此，
给建议其实是有风险的。某个人可能很快就会来找你，他需要你的帮助、深刻的见解
与智慧。你拥有珍贵的东西可以帮上他，也能帮助其他人，所以不要害怕说出自己的
想法。你该说的也许不会立刻被对方接受，但是对方最终会听进去的，而且觉得相当
受用。