You may feel that you need more space or distance between yourself and
someone who frustrates you or creates anxiety in your life. But are you
sure that this person is the source of your discomfort, Moonchild, or
could it be something else in your life that is causing a general state of
anxiety? You need to figure out what's bothering you before you take
random steps to try to fix it. If this is a general dysphoria, get to the
bottom of it and address it directly.
某个人之前让你非常失望，或是把你搞得很烦，所以你也许会觉得必须跟他保持距离，
或是让自己有更多空间独处。可是你确定这个人就是让你不开心的根源吗，月之子？
或者是你生命中的其他事物引发了你的焦虑与不安呢？在你随便乱来想要解决问题的
时候，你必须想清楚是什么在困扰着你。如果这只是一般的焦虑症状，那就找出焦虑
的根源，并且直截了当地处理。