Do you feel that someone has been talking "at" you rather than directly
"to" you on a matter of great importance? Whether this is business or
personal, you have the right to be treated respectfully, Cancer. This
person might be doing this a lot, especially to you, and you reached your
limit long ago. Since you deserve respect but can't force someone to treat
you right or do the right thing, it becomes a difficult situation to deal
with. But you do have the power to step away and ignore what this person
is saying - at least until they deliver their message properly. If you
can't confront this person directly, there are more subtle ways to use -
and still deliver - the message.
你是不是感觉到某个人在你背后指指点点，而不是直接跟你讲某件很重要的事呢？不
论这是工作或私人的事，你都有权利要求对方尊重你，巨蟹。这个人可能老是这样，
尤其是针对你，而你很早之前就忍无可忍了。因为你值得被尊重，但是你不能强迫别
人用正确的方式对待你，或是做对的事，所以现在的状况很棘手。不过你确实有权离
开，以及忽视他所说的话——至少等到他们可以好好的说话，再来听他们说什么也不
迟。如果你没办法直接面对这个人，有一些隐微的方式可以使用，以及传递那些讯息。