Here is a simple way to make yourself a happier person, Moonchild.
Although you can be quite independent, you also have a deep need to please
other people - especially the people you care the most about. But
sometimes you lose sight of your own goals and desires because the goals
and desires of other people become very important to you. Sometimes you
even begin to see their objectives as your own. But if you can find a way
to separate these, and you opt to make your own needs and opinions most
important -at least some of the time - your own happiness will be easier
to achieve.
这里有一种让你成为更快乐的人的方法，很简单，月之子。虽然你可以很独立，但是
你内心深处还是有着很深刻的需求：你想要取悦他人，尤其是那些你最在乎的人。可
是有时候你看不见自己的目标和内心真实的欲望，因为其他人的目标和欲望成了你最
重要的事情。有时候，你甚至把他们的目标当作自己的目标，但是如果你能找出方法
来区别这些，你选择把自己的需求和意见摆在最重要的位置—至少某些时候，你必须
这样做—那么你就更容易感到幸福快乐。