When you were a child, your parents may have stressed that it was
important to share with your siblings and playmates. The doll or toy truck
that you treasured may have then been handed off to some other child, and
that may have made you feel a bit possessive. As adults, some of us still
harbor guilt when we don't want to share. But the truth is that sharing
isn't always the right thing to do. Someone may be encouraging you to
share something now that you don't want to share, and you shouldn't have
to, Cancer. Whether this is a credit you earned or a reward you worked
for, don't feel guilty about not wanting to share.
当你还小的时候，你的父母亲可能就强调了跟手足和玩伴分享的重要性，你珍惜的娃
娃或玩具卡车可能被送给其他小孩了，这可能让你产生占有欲。现在长大成人了，我
们之中有一些人仍然会在不想要分享的时候心怀愧疚。然而，事实上，分享并不总是
对的。有人可能正在鼓励你分享某个你不想分享的东西，那你就不需要这样做，巨蟹。
不管这是你挣来的功劳或是努力得来的奖赏，你不想分享的时候，不用感到愧疚。