You may be waiting for someone else to decide where they are going, or to
make their next move, so that you can move on with your own life. That means
that your future is dependent on what someone else does, Moonchild. You do have
a tendency to sacrifice your own needs and desires for those you love, and this
may be one of those times. In this case, though, it is critical that you figure
out what is best for you specifically, and you don't base your future on what
this person does. You owe that to yourself.