A family matter may be up for discussion now, Moonchild. Other family members
may not want to discuss the issue, but you know that it needs to be resolved.
If you give in to those who are avoiding you, or you decide to back out of the
situation, it will affect you eventually anyway. If you have been giving tough
love and trying to manage the situation in an aggressive way, that may be why
others won't respond. Try a new approach. If you deal with those involved in a
gentler, more insightful way, they will surely come around.