为什么不该追求爱情
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2ucDApdbvs
恋爱与职场原来有这么多相似之处？商业顾问张国洋认为，不少人在谈恋爱时常被中文所
谓的“追求”二字给误导了，倾向听从直觉采取一个容易把对方吓退的策略。
但实际上要发展长远的恋爱关系，我们应像知名品牌建立客户兴趣那样，采取一种钓鱼型
的策略：一面拿出价值与口碑吸引鱼群；另一方面，则要避免急躁收线以免把鱼线弄断。
It is very similar between pursuing lover and building career. Business
consultant JHANG, GUO YANG thinks a lot of people have misunderstood the
meaning of "pursue the love", and often scare off the one. In fact, if people
want to develope a long term relationship, should make the target interested
in them just like to make the customer interested in the brand. Take fishing
for example, fisher lure the fish with value and good reputation but doesn't
rush to reel the thread in, otherwise, the string might break and the fish
will go away.
很时尚的观念，不追不求，其实就是很节制克己的情欲管理，在古代叫君子，在西方叫绅
士。现在叫精品，除了昂贵，还有深奥独特的内涵。