※ 引述《sumade (斩卍凯蒂猫卍佛)》之铭言：
看过知名美剧 Breaking Bad 没有?
引述剧中一段话给你参考
https://www.douban.com/note/233921143/?type=like
What does a man do?
A man provides for his family.
When you have children, you always have family.
They will always your priority, your responsibility, a man provides.
And he does it even when he's not appreciated or respected or even loved.
He simply bears up, and he does it… because he's a man.
"不计较"三个字, 反映了你的能力, 心胸, 爱
三者缺少任何一个都没办法不计较
刚好这三者又都符合女性的择偶标准, 所以女性当然在乎这个
我说的是不计较, 不是交换
你很喜欢说有能力的男生又不蠢, 请女生吃饭一定会要求某方面回报
那是你自己以为而已
世界上真的有人不计较, 而且多得是
只是这些不计较的人, 生活多半很幸福
他或者他的配偶多半不需要上男女板求助, 所以你看不到