爱情中重要的不是找寻相同,而是可否接受对方的不相同。
从爱情的发展与延伸中,只要一直持续,就会慢慢培养出共同的嗜好或兴趣,从而会
有越来越多的相同与共通点。而这一切,只要有一点不同而无法接受,就会全面毁灭。
在诸多恋爱过程中,特别感受到的是对于爱情的忍受以及愿意改变的程度,这往往就
是跟喜爱对方的程度,对于另一半的景仰或羡慕程度成正比。
没有打不痛,没有离不开的恋爱,只有还没有痛够的恋爱。
爱情中的天平,如果倾斜,是无法久存的,因为在另一边放上的是自己的爱,损耗的
也是自己对于另一半的爱。
爱情需要运气,能找到自己合适的真的需要运气,发文、由谈话中删减只是一个减少
一点运气成分的方法,有时候不小心也会把好的删去了,这时候只能默默叹气。
I found my soulmate. You didn't.
I dedicate myself to this relationship.
You don't want to give in your principle for us.
You said and I quote here, "There is no fairness in love, nor in our
relationship. What you can do is great. However I can't do the same thing."
I am all in now. Then the story shall end here.
In the very beginning, I realized we are not in the same league.
After months went by, you make me see it more clearly by pointing out each
wrong I made or every word I said improperly.
Yes I still love you. But you might think we are not in the same page
anymore, dear.
敬祝天下有情人终有眷属,敬祝我爱情顺利。
Fingers crossed.