你已经陷入被家暴者的情绪了
你可以不用找理由，直接分手就是，
真要安全就是人永远消失他找不到你，就是安全
否则永远没有安全的理由
然后你在推文中说的，他暴怒，你害怕，他哭泣，你心软，
其实这是一种循环，还有家暴不一定要打下去，还有一种叫精神暴力
给你看一首诗 一首歌，自己考虑考虑，最好找心理咨商谈看看，你也生病了
The Absence of Rage
缺乏暴怒
I Got Flowers Today (Poem)
我今天收到花(诗)
Saturday 16th December 2000
2000年12月16日
I got flowers today.
我今天收到花。
It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day
今天不是我的生日或是什么特别的日子
We had our first argument last night,
昨晚，我们第一次争吵，
And he said a lot of cruel things
他说了很多惨忍的事
that really hurt me.
那真的伤了我。
I know he is sorry and didn’t mean
我知道他很抱歉而且不是故意的
the things he said
他说的那些事
Because he sent me flowers today.
因为他今天送我花。
I got flowers today.
我今天收到花。
It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day
今天不是我们的结婚周年日或是什么特别的日子
Last night he threw me into a wall
昨晚，他把我推去撞墙
and started to choke me.
然后掐着我。
It seemed like a nightmeare.
仿佛是场噩梦。
I couldn’t believe it was real
我不敢相信那是真的
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
今早，我遍体?伤的醒来。
I know he must be sorry,
我知道他一定很抱歉，
Because he sent me flowers today.
因为他今天送我花。
I got flowers today.
我今天收到花。
It wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day.
今天不是母亲节或是什么特别的日子。
Last night he beat me up again.
昨晚，他又痛打我一顿。
And it was much worse than all the other times.
比之前的都惨。
If I leave him, what will I do?
如果我离开他，我能做什么？
How will I take care of my kids?
我怎么照顾我的小孩？
What about money?
钱呢？
I’m afraid of him and scared to leave.
我很怕他，也害怕离开。
But I know he must be sorry
但我知道他一定很抱歉
Because he sent me flowers today.
因为他今天送我花。
I got flowers today.
我今天收到花。
It was the day of my funeral.
这是我的葬礼。
Last night, he finally kileed me.
昨晚，他终于杀了我。
He beat me to death.
他把我打到死。
If only I had gathered
如果我有
Enogh courage and strength to leave him,
足够的勇气和力量离开他，
I would not have gotten flower today.
我今天就不会收到花了。
参考资料
myself......好写实的一首诗
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZt7J0iaUD0
My name is Luka
我的名字叫做路卡
I live on the second floor
我住在二楼
I live upstairs from you
就在你家楼上
Yes I think you’ve seen me before
我想也许你曾经见过我
If you hear something late at night
如果你夜半听到什么声音
Some kind of trouble. some kind of fight
某种让你困惑、打架的声音
Just don’t ask me what it was
请不要问我是怎么一回事
Just don’t ask me what it was
请不要问我是怎么一回事
Just don’t ask me what it was
请不要问我是怎么一回事
I think it’s because I’m clumsy
我想也许是因为我拙于言语
I try not to talk too loud
我试着尽量轻声细语
Maybe it’s because I’m crazy
也许是因为我太疯狂
I try not to act too proud
我试着别太骄傲
They only hit until you cry
他们一直打到你哭才住手
And after that you don’t ask why
在此之后，你就别再探究原因
You just don’t argue anymore
你就不再争辩了
You just don’t argue anymore
你就不再争辩了
You just don’t argue anymore
你就不再争辩了
Yes I think I’m okay
是的，我想我还好啦
I walked into the door again
所以我又再次走进了那扇门
Well, if you ask that’s what I’ll say
如果你问我有什么想说的
And it’s not your business anyway
我只想说这毕竟不关你的事
I guess I’d like to be alone
我想我只想在不受伤的情况下
With nothing broken, nothing thrown
安安静静的独处
Just don’t ask me how I am
只求别问我过得好不好
Just don’t ask me how I am
只求别问我过得好不好
Just don’t ask me how I am
只求别问我过得好不好