Keeping something from someone isn't necessarily a bad thing. You may be
feeling guilty because you haven't revealed a secret, or because you are
presently unwilling to discuss a private matter with someone who is central
in your life. This person may try to make you feel guilty, or you may simply
feel guilty because you don't like keeping secrets. Either way, you need to
wait for the perfect moment to express what you have to say. Otherwise you
won't be ready to say it - and the other person may not be ready to hear it.
保留从某人那边得到的某种东西并不一定是坏事。你可能会因为没有揭露一个祕密，或是
不愿意和生活中心的某人讨论一件私事而有罪恶感。或许是这人刻意让你有罪恶感，但也
可能只是你不喜欢保密而已。无论是哪个理由，你都必须等待那个让你表达的好时机。不
然你也还没准备好要说，而且别人也可能还没准备好要听。