You may think that if you are determined enough, kind enough, honest enough, f
air enough, and understanding enough you can fix something that is broken in a
relationship. That would be a wise way of looking at it, Aries, if the other
person involved was of the same mindset. However, no matter how far above and
beyond you go to make something work, you are still limited by what the other
party does and what kind of a commitment they make to the same goal. Don't bea
t your head against a wall to make something work if you're getting nothing in
return.
你可能觉得如果你能更果断、更宽容、更诚实、更公平，就能修补感情中的裂痕。如果对
方也抱着相同心态，有智慧的做法就是正视它。然而，无论付出多少努力想让事情好转，
你仍然受限于对方的行动，及他们为了相同目的所做的承诺。若你无法得到任何回报或进
展，就别枉费力气了（原文：拿自己的头去撞墙以让事情好转）。