You are trying to convey an important point to someone, but you are not
getting through. You may feel inclined to talk louder or more emphatically.
You may want to try a different way of saying what you have to say.
But you may be missing the problem. It may be that you aren't getting
through because you aren't listening well enough.
If you take the time to listen, you may figure out what's missing more easily,
and then your communication will be clear and effective.
你试着要把重要讯息传达给某人，但你说的还不够仔细，你可能不好意思说大声一点
或是更强调你所要表达的重点，你可能想要换个方式来说明那些你必须该说的事但却
他们却无法顺利通关的原因可能是你忽略了一些问题，你听得不够仔细。
如果你花一些时间聆听，你也许可以更容易的找到问题的所在，
而你的沟通上也能清楚且有效地传达