The needs of another person have taken over and eclipsed your own needs.
You have sacrificed your own time and energy - and perhaps your own
happiness - to do something or to work on behalf of someone else.
It may have started as an isolated incident; the answer to a need.
But it evolved into a habit, and now it has become more of an obligation.
But it doesn't have to be that way. It can change - and it should change.
Slowly ease yourself out of it, Aries. That doesn't mean you have to
abandon the relationship.
It just means that you have to take your own space back.
你自己的需求,已经因为你太过于注重对某人的需求而侵蚀掉了,
你已经牺牲了你的时间和精力,也许还有些你自己的快乐,
你可以去帮助其他人,而不是去做一些专属于他/她的事情,,
也许这一切都开始于一个偶发事件,但是这需求,已经变成了一种习惯,
到现在甚至变成一种义务,其实你可以不必这么做,这是可以改变的,
而且也应该被改变,羊儿们~试着从中慢下脚步,
但不是要你抛弃整段关系,这只代表你必须找属于自己的时间