Making excuses for someone who continuously makes the same mistakes is not
positive or productive for you, Aquarius, or for the one you keep excusing.
It glosses over the real problem and minimizes it, which allows it to
continue. You have been excusing someone's behavior, and now it may have
become the norm rather than the exception. It is time to speak up and express
that it is not acceptable. Doing so could be the impetus for change.
为不停犯下相同错误的人找借口或是选择原谅，
对您来说是没有意义的。
这样子会掩盖真正的问题，让问题持续下去。
你不停的在原谅某人的行为，现在已经变成一种常态。
是时候大声的说出来，这种错误是不可以被接受的。
这么做可以促进转变。