Being asked for advice can be flattering. The fact that someone has enough fai
th in you and admiration for your abilities can make you feel really good. But
giving advice can be a double-edged sword. The highest esteem in which you we
re held can quickly dissolve into mistrust and resentment if something goes wr
ong because of your advice. If someone comes to you looking for guidance, offe
r it if you want to, but also insist that this person thinks about it carefull
y before implementing. That way you could save yourself from conflict.
被要求提供建议可以是对你的称赞。此即代表某人对你有足够的信心，而且对你的能力的
赞赏可以使你感觉非常好。但是提供意见可能是把双面刃。只要事情因为你的建议而出错
，对你的景仰可以快速的瓦解为不信任以及怨恨。因此，如果某人来寻求你的指引，在你
自己是想要提供建议的前提下给予意见，并且坚决要求这个人必须在实际行动前好好思考
过一切。这样的话，你将能够让自己免于之后的冲突。