I'm a single girl at 35, not tall not slim not white-skinned,
not oversea-school-graduated, not with rich family background.
And I'm looking for making real friends (guys and ladies) who are meeting
(many of) these conditions:
1. Your born date was during 1969-1980.
（七年级的就不用来信啦）
2. You are physical and mental single with no "temp. partners."
You would want to have a marriage or a life-long partner,
or you are happy being single, with NO interests at "games".
（不管你是不婚主义者或是想婚族，基本上你对于单身的时间能自得其乐，
不会只是因为寂寞或无聊而想找人作伴。
所以，那些想找暧昧的、短暂陪伴的、取暖的、无聊打发时间的，别来！）
3. You want to make some real friends to share life;
you would like to share thoughts with others literally and orally,
and probably go out together sometimes.
　 （这年纪单身的常会发现找不到人好好聊天，更别提一起出门啦，对吧？！）
4. You're not selfish/childish, not demanding, not cool to others and society;
you are optimistic (at most time) and open-minded to people and things,
and not judging people by schooling/money/careers/families/outlooking.
（你不是公主或王子，不会事事挑剔，有着良善和不冷漠的心性，
思考行为有相当于年龄的成熟度、个性不悲观（也无须太过乐观 XD）、
　　 愿意接受不同于己的人事物，
也同意三高/外表/家庭不完全代表一个人的人品、个性、和价值）
5. You have/had experiences of living/traveling alone, and enjoyed it.
（你有独自居住/旅行的经验，能理解且不自苦于一个人的生活）
6. You know the importance of foreign languages and
you are able to use the languages you know properly.
（你知道国际化与其他语言的重要性，也能适当地使用你会的各种语言）
If you're sincere to make freinds not just for hanging out and killing time,
you are welcome to write back to me,
with your answers to the following questions (Chinese or English'd be fine):
(If you are going to bring some foreign friends, they are welcome too!)
1. Nickname/Gender/Birth year
2. How do you spend your free time?
3. What's your thoughts of politics and religion?
4. The most impressive thing(s) in your traveling experiences?
5. Are you willing to join in a group with strangers, and look forward to
getting real friends?
6. Your FB or Blog link
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我两年前曾经在这里揪过类似的群组，
那个团也促成了几对情侣，包括两对最近结婚的
（当然不只是乡民，还有其他人带来的朋友）
不管有没有交往，还是有一半以上的人成为真正的朋友
So... We will see!