某个对你而言很重要的人正在处理一件事情,你想帮忙但却只看到问题的冰山一角而已。
纵使对方并没有恳求或要求你出手相助,或是提供其他意见,呣呣~
若你能从不同的视域去看待这个问题,那么这会让你对她现在的感觉更有共鸣,让你能够
深入了解其重要性。
即便你认为自己已经看清楚这件事的全貌,但事实上仍有些地方是你没有掌握到的,除非
你深入去了解它。
对任何人都该如此。
注:偶尔我们会因为迫切想帮助他人解决事情而急于提供援助,但或许在一知半解的情况
下只会造成对方的困然,然而对方又因为人情因素不方便表态。这种恶性循环只会让人际
关系越来越糟。很多事情在出手以前不妨先换位思考,想想他人的处境再决定是否帮忙。
You may only be seeing the tip of the iceberg as you try to understand an issue
a loved one is dealing with.
Even if the individual does not implore you to try and take a multi-dimensional
look at the issue , Taurus , you should.
If you can see this from all angles , it will help you empathize with and
understand someone else's point of view , which is very important.
Even if you turly believe you are seeing the big picture , there are elements
that you probably will not see until you take a much deeper look.
You owe that to everyone who is involved.